We're drifting off topic but I'll say it again. I know the HELO said they had traffic in sight. I know the Controller told them to pass behind. I know pilot's have responsibilities/obligations too.
But, maybe it's just the way I control. Maybe it's my OCD. But if a pilot is telling me they are going to do something but I observe something else happening, (no action/change from the pilot - in this case the helo NEVER turned away from or maneuvered away from the CRJ's projected flight path even AFTER the "conversation") I'm going to issue a different kind of control instruction or I'm going to do something with the other traffic involved.
It's a little bit like dealing with a kid. You can tell a kid to stop doing something. But if they don't listen (or do it more) do you not do something else?
On topic though, I think we deserve a raise (I didn't mean to imply that before). I just mean that certain political circles, maybe the Union, and some of the public might not sympathize due to ongoing events.