I can't really be sympathetic... First facility for me was Aspen, living in a single wide trailer hanging off the side of a mountain with my wife and kids in Phoenix because that is where she worked... I drove the PHX to ASE drive 3 weekends a month...
When my second son was born I was told at the academy that if I went home I would be shit canned and there was a line of others waiting to get in... So I missed my second son's birth. Shit even the Army sent me home from Iraq to see my first son be born...
I'm just saying for the most part I kept my head down, kissed ass when I needed too, met the people I needed to meet, did my time and moved on. I didn't bitch 24/7. I played the shitty game that everyone else played.
The military has a saying and so far I find it applies to the faa... There is only two places you like the place you're leaving and the place you're going. Kinda like the three busiest facilities in the faa are the last you were at, the one you're at now or the one you're going to.
The grass isn't always greener. Most of you will err and probably want to leave that facility too.
Now time for some truth... People keep bashing the union because they think natca is fucking them via the ncept program. Truth is you're doing it to yourselves (me included). If everyone would stop dropping err's and bucked the system the faa would have to bid jobs. Which mean move money, being graded on a point system that includes time in service and experience and the holy grail that a lot of you ask for, being cpc for some amount of time to even be qualified to bid.
Guess I'll wait to be flamed now.