I think you've found out the FAA way, from the wording of your post, that this career really isnt all that great. They throw an above-average pay/benefits package at you so you'll shut your mouth and gargle those gubmint balls.
Welcome to the contingent of people that makes $150k a year and throws their youth away on Wed/Thu days off at a 24hr facility working the 4-3-1-6-mid...dont worry, you might be able to get a piece of the weekend when you're 45. By the time you realize how much you fucking hate this job and how the FAA has sucked the fun out of your love of aviation, you have 7 years in the agency and at that point you're too invested in your pension and TSP to try and change careers..."damn this job pays $150k and it's a regular 9 to 5...but shit I cant just throw away this $50k pension."
Honestly it takes a lot of energy to keep going but you make it work. No, this job isn't the best job in the world, not even close. Dont let some senior jackdick at your facility who got hired on the front side of a hiring wave who's had a piece of the weekend off at his dream facility since he was 5 years in try to tell you that you're scum and need to shut your mouth and out your time in. The FAA has literally never been this understaffed (since Reagan) with traffic that only increases every year, thereby increasing staffing requirements and burying the already overworked workforce...all while the FAA is only running 3 classes through next spring at the Academy, or whatever that instructor said on that other thread on here.
I have 6 going on 7 years in. Luckily I was able to ERR out of my first facility after 3 years and I already have my high 3, transferring to my home facility next April to make things a little better...but I'll be pretty much rock-bottom in seniority (out of 60+) and I'll be lucky to have a piece of the weekend by the time I'm 40. It takes a lot of energy to keep going with the bullshit, but you're not alone in your misery my guy.
This career looks great on paper if money isnt a factor, you end up at a decent facility with a strong local that isnt 24/7, and you have some sort of ability to get a part of the weekend off for at least a few months a year. Otherwise you end up working credit time to take Saturdays off for free occasionally to spend with your wife while the old fucks who have lazy ass wives and overextended the shit out of their lifestyle look at you like you're the fuckin scumbag for "stealing" their OT. I live in NYC, fuckin Tinder capital of the world...you know what kind of degenerate hipster dating pool you get stuck with trying to hook up with a chick on a Wednesday night in the middle of a cold ass Brooklyn winter? Lmao