Either you don’t live in the Bay Area or never been there. And I think your living standards are lower than some. I personally agree with this Reddit person. I believe the ATC profession should allow you to live in a safe neighborhood where you don’t have to watch your back when leaving to work before the sun is up and coming back past midnight. Where you feel safe for your wife and kids to walk around the neighborhood at any time of the day. The sacrifices we make and the responsibility we carry should allow us to live a decent life. Also, with our shift work, our pay should be enough for the whole family so your wife doesn’t have to work. And 275k in the Bay Area is on the lower end to attaining this.