The average American has over $1,500 in non-mortgage debt payments every month: credit cards, auto loans, personal debt, student loans, etc. It doesn’t have to be that bad. Some non-mortgage debt is necessary. I get that.
And yes you are spot on. Not everybody has liquid assets for down payments, to invest or whatever… but the point is, people have been tricked into thinking they can afford something if they can survive the monthly payment. People would be much better off if they actually understood the concept that they CANT afford all the shit they are going into debt for even if they are squeaking by with the minimum payment.
It’s a massive lie designed by the people who profit from debt.. but saying broadly that “debt is good” or “debt is leverage” or “debt is an asset” (or whatever fucked up verbiage one can insert here spinning debt as a positive thing) is an oversimplification that does a disservice to the 99.5% of people who aren’t wealthy and strategically utilize debt.
I’m not trying to put words in your mouth. I 100% agree with your last sentence. However, more often than not, if non-wealthy people (everybody on this forum) are spinning debt into a positive light, it’s probably because they are trying to justify their awful spending habits in their head.