Agree a lot of these are iffy as far as adults go. Take some Claritin, quit being a baby back bitch.
Sometimes solving the problem requires moving, and being supportive means changing career aspirations. I value the health and mental well being of my spouse over my coworkers feefees.
Wanting to be around to be supportive and/or be able to spend time with a loved one on their last legs is bad if you aren't thier full time home nurse? Kind of a cold hearted take if you ask me, and ya fuck Dem kids I guess? little Timmy's tree pollen induced asthma attacks shouldn't affect your ability to ERR!
This one I haven't seen, but I could see situations where it'd be a reality for some people.
I've seen my fair share of garbage hardships in my time in the agency, at this point I just say don't hate the player hate the game. No one else is looking out for you or your loved ones like you are. Agency wants to make it difficult to get where you want in your career, pay level, location or otherwise, and the union doesn't see fit to try and change it, regardless of what BUEs think, people are gonna find ways to do what they need to do.
That's no reason to be spiteful at perfectly legitimate reasons people hardship though.