, I do feel bad for the same guy when hes stuck out in bumfuck 4 years later, with no outlook of getting back home while his father loses his last remaining mental acuity to dementia or whose wife left him bc they were stuck out in bumfuck and he wants to see his kids more than once a year.
Having empathy and privileging one controller over everyone else for arbitrary life shit are 2 different things. Cut the bullshit, you know damn well the sexy facilities have dramatically more hardship requests, and that has nothing to do w daddy having the black lung. You like the system set up to let ppl scam around to their dream facility if the union gives a wink and a nod, fine... but don't pretend they're Helen Keller!